(Closed) March 2013 Brides, how are you coming along? We're close!

posted 6 years ago in March 2013
Post # 3
619 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Solar 40:  130 more days!  yikes!!!

Designing invites now and hopefully will be ready to order soon. I see youre mailing in Jan.  I think we are too – what RSVP date are you giving?  i was thinking 2/28?


Post # 4
40 posts
  • Wedding: March 2013

I am doing good.  I feel like I have accomplished alot.  Still need to:

Finish putting together invitations (DIY), mail them in January, put together survial kit for Bridesmaid or Best Man, get wedding bands for both of us, finish centerpieces (DIY – almost done), get our marriage license, send DJ our song list, go for dress fitting (scheduled for January), pick out tux rentals for guys, create escort cards (need to wait for RSVP’s to come back and DIY), get garter, pick excursions for honeymoon (taking a cruise), decide on hair style for day of, find after party dress (we are going out after wedding is over with friends since we will have the limo for 5 hours and I don’t want to wear my ankle length bridal dress), finish wrapping favors…..

I think that is it.  I hope so!  With the holidays I am afraid the only one of these things that I will accomplish will be the invitations since they have to go out in January!  For the RSVP date, we put 2/1 since we need to have a final head count for their meal selection 2 weeks before the date.  That will give us enough time to call anyone that doesn’t RSVP in time.

Post # 7
2103 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

My ladies are ordering their dresses by next month. They’re currently making travel plans. All the men have suits.

Still paying things off: reception venue, flowers, photography, etc.

I still need alterations on my dress…

Have to plan the ceremony and touch base with our wedding coordinator. 

And…I have to send invitations and start my DIY projects.

AHHH! So many to-dos!

Post # 8
40 posts
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Solar 40 I got the idea from other bee’s and loved it.  They put a poem with it so I took bits & pieces from the different poems to make it my own.  Most items you can get at a dollar store so they are not very expensive to put together.  The kit includes: lotion, tissues, a wisp toothbrush, nail file, shout (the wipes), mints, tylenol & tums in a small plastic container, a few band aids wrapped with ribbon, wine glass that I had painted and backed (got this from another bee – it was really easy, fun & cheap), hanger (this part of the poem I made up my self – I made them wire hangers with their name on them), small bottle of wine, lint roller and even though its not included in the bag, I am paying to have their make-up done so I added it to the poem.  I am putting everything in a tote bag that I had personalized with their name.  I will tie the poem to the bag (somehow – haven’t figured this part out yet) so that they see it when I give it to them.

Here’s the poem to go with it:

This Survival Kit was made just to say,

I’m thankful you’re beside me on my wedding day!

Lotion so your hands will never feel dry,

And a packet of tissues in case you should cry.

A tiny toothbrush to whiten your smile

If a nail should break, I’ve included a file.

There is Shout if you should spill on your dress,

And mints to keep your breath minty fresh.

There’s Tylenol and Tums if it’s ill that you feel,

And Band-aids to help you if you tackle high heels.

I’ve also included a pretty wine glass,

to help ease the stress when I’m a pain in the ass.

Hang your dress from a hanger made especially for you,

And your make-up will look great in the afternoon too.

There’s some booze to help you get a quick buzz

And a lint roller to remove any hair or some fuzz.

Hopefully this kit makes it clear to see

How special you are to the bride-to-be

I’ll forever be thankful for all that you do,

For being my bridesmaid, and just being you


Post # 9
542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@italiaangel80:  I’m sooooo interested in doing a survival kit for my bridemaids now.  Thanks for all the tips!!!!

I feel like I have soooooooo much to do still.  The biggest major thing I have left is finding a DJ.  But a friend gave me a number to the DJ she used for her wedding so I plan on calling him tomorrow 🙂  I also have to finish my invites (DIY), Smores Favors (can’t do until the week of), dress alterations, bridesmaids are ordering their dresses this weekend, groomsmen and groom attire, bridal party gifts, parents gifts, marriage license, write our vows, finish up programs, ALOT more, this is just alll I can think of right now. 

Looking at everyone else list makes me feel better though.  I guess now that I look I’m not doing too bad at all.  🙂

Post # 10
48 posts
  • Wedding: March 2013

My wedding is March 3 – I can’t believe only 89 days!! are all you other March brides feeling overwhelmed with the holidays? it is kind of freeking me out! First let’s start with what is already done –  becuase that makes me feel better

  • DIY Flower girl baskets
  • DIY Ring Bearer box
  • DIY table numbers
  • DIY Invitations
  • DIY card box
  • DIY will you be my bridesmaid cards
  • DIY Save the Dates
  • DIY Letters for gift table
  • DIY mailbox for post card guest book
  • DIY hand warmer favors
  • DIY S’mores favors tags (can’t actaully make the packages yet)
  • Dress purchased (and veil)
  • accomodations booked

Vendors I have booked:

  • venue / catering
  • florist (and planner, and just happens to be my BFF from high school!)
  • photographer
  • dj
  • officiant

Vendors I need to confirm

  • Hair and makeup
  • shuttle service

To Do List:

  • Gifts – groom, attendents, parents
  • dress fitting (next week – i’m afraid it won’t ZIP!!!!)
  • S’mores favors
  • programs
  • Out of Town newsletter / bags
  • Thank you sign
  • buy shoes + rehersal dinner dress + after party dress (we’re having kararoke at a near-by bar!!)
  • find bolero for wedding dress
  • make sure all attendents purchase attire (eh hem boys!!!)
  • signs for venue – ceremony / reception
  • finalize menue, cake, rehersal dinner menue
  • day of timeline
  • lose 5 pounds
  • purchase wedding bands
  • get post cards for our guest book
  • finish writing up our ceremony
  • write vows
  • get marriage license
  • give song / music list to DJ
  • select music for ceremony

I feel like there’s got to be more, but I don’t know… it seems like a lot to do in such a short period of time, especially with all the holidays plus we’re doing out of town bachelor and bachelorette parties (two seperate weekends)… it’s insane. is anyone else freeking out? does anyone see anything glaring that is missing from my list?

Post # 11
118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

Argh! I still need to get alterations on my dress. I’m hoping to have this done by end of December so I can do bridal portraits in January. What is the Melina for alterations, anyway?

Post # 12
62 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013



  • Designing invitations
  • Wedding dress and alterations – just picked it up today!
  • All bridal accessories and shoes
  • Wedding bands ordered and delivered
  • Bridesmaids dresses ordered and waiting for delivery
  • Ceremony and reception site booked
  • Photographer booked
  • Engagement photos, waiting to get them back
  • STD sent
  • Contacted cake baker, waiting for design
  • Flower girl dress
  • Bridesmaid or Best Man gifts
  • Honeymoon booked
  • Hotel booked for the night before the wedding and wedding night
  • Make-up artist booked and trial done

To do:

  • Order invitations and mail them out
  • Get tux fitting for fiance
  • Buy ties for groomsmen
  • Finalize cake details
  • DIY Centerpieces
  • Program, guestbook, place cards, thank you notes
  • Favors 
  • Hair stylist booking and trial
  • Flowers
  • Decide on menu at the reception venue, after tasting
  • Decide on our officiant
  • Have a bachelorette
  • Select music for ceremony, dances and reception
  • Get MOB dress shopping with mom

I thought I had a ton of stuff marked down.. Why is the to-do list longer than what I have accomplished?


Post # 13
35 posts
  • Wedding: March 2013

We have the same date 😉 March 23rd, 2013! I am super excited myself! 

Post # 14
48 posts
  • Wedding: March 2013

OMG 66 days till my weddding!! anyone else freeking out!? that is CRAZY!!!!

Post # 15
40 posts
  • Wedding: March 2013

@razzelbride – I know how you feel.  Now that Christmas is over, it seems like there is no time to finish everything needed to do.  Right now, I am finishing my invitations which go in the mail on Monday!  Only 18 left to put together (thank goodness)!

Post # 16
164 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@italiaangel80:  we are date twins :)) you’re already sending your invites out? I guess I’m behind I wasn’t going to do that till mid – January is that too late !! Omg ladies I have been so anxious ! I feel like a chicken with its head cut off !!!

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