March POAS

posted 10 months ago in TTC
Post # 76
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2020

thanks @marriedbliss and @BellaBeau ☺️

Me and my husband are still in shock. He made me do another test later this morning just to be sure! I used an internet cheap strip as I only have one FRER left and didn’t want to waste it on anything that wasn’t FMU. Thankfully that one came out positive too so it’s starting to sink in for both of us now! It’s Mother’s Day here in the UK so I can’t wait to tell my mum later!

Post # 77
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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@spagino21:  I’m in the UK too and was hoping for a mother’s day bfp too! I’m at 9dpo so it’s quite early but was disappointed by a bfn this morning!

Post # 78
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2020

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@marriedbliss:  Sending baby dust to you, I hope you get your BFP this month too! I had a significant dip on my chart below the cover line at 9dpo which I now think was implantation so I would’ve had a negative result on that day too because I think it takes about two days or so for HCG levels to rise. Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏽

Post # 79
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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@spagino21:  I think I may be going crazy! I just dug out the test from this morning (super no no, I know) and I swear there’s a faint line?! There’s also a vvvfl on the wonfo I took but I dismissed that as an indent. 

 

Post # 80
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Bumble bee

Hi everyone! Just putting in a quick plug for anyone getting their bfp and due in November to join us in the November due date thread! We also started a Facebook group if anyone wants to join 🙂

Post # 81
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: City, State

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@spagino21:  congratulations!!!!! That’s a nice bfp! Sending Stickey vibes to you 

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

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@spagino21:  Congrats bee!! 

Post # 83
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2020

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@marriedbliss:  I’d say test tomorrow or in a few days! I’m really thankful that I held off until the time my period is due just because at least you know for certain either way! Although the temptation to test is very real..

Post # 84
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2020

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@fireusagi:  Thank you, trying to manage our expectations that it might not stick but also to stay positive at the same time!! I’ve just told my mum and she’s already talking about which days per week she can look after the baby…

Post # 85
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2020

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@jz0909:  thank you lovely, sending baby dust ✨

Post # 86
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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@megm1099:  I can’t remember, are you the person who said they are still breastfeeding #1? If so, I wouldn’t worry about the anovulatory cycle–I didn’t get my period at all until my daughter was almost a year old, and even then it was wonky until I totally stopped breastfeeding. Hopefully the one BD was enough!

 

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@spagino21:  Congratulations! That is definitely a BFP!

Post # 87
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

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@lakelady5:  No that’s not me! I just had bad luck XD But definitely if I was still BF I wouldn’t be so annoyed!

Congratulations to all the BFPs!!! Best ever! 🙂

Post # 88
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

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@spagino21:  Eeeee! Congrats!

 

TW loss. 

 

I think I’m sitting at 5dpo but it was a weird long drawn out ovulation phase due to coming off of miscarriage and I don’t have much hope. It’s actually getting me really depressed today. I was able to push down the sadness from losing baby as I just put my mind toward the next chance. Now I’m getting bills in for my miscarriage and feel out this month and I’m just angry. So far this miscarriage has cost me 1k on top of paying $1500/mo for our insurance for 3. My husband owns his own business and this is literally the best insurance offered to us. It’s so infuriating. It makes me want to just give up. I don’t know meh. I’m certainly feeling all these anxious stressful feelings that I had when I went through infertility with my first and I don’t like this at all. 

Post # 89
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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@lovemygsp:  I’m sorry you’re feeling down. I can relate, it’s our first cycle ttc after a miscarriage too and I was so sure it would happen but just had a very negative test at 10dpo and feel out this cycle. My loss is also tied up with losing my job two weeks before and feelings of worthlessness. I relate to the feeling of pushing down sadness by working towards another chance, trying to have something positive to hold onto. Its crushing when it doesn’t happen. But you’re only 5dpo so hang in there if you can. There is still hope! The medical bills are something else though, eeeesh 😞

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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

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@lovemygsp:  
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@marriedbliss:  I haven’t roll called yet, since I’m not sure when I’ll be ovulating (it may not line up with a March POAS), but I’m having all the same feelings. In theory, I’m fine with it taking awhile because now I know it can happen, and I objectively know a little processing time could be good. But, since I’ve started having some fertile signs in the past couple of days, we’ve begun a modified SMEP and I’m not going to lie, I’m so invested in this month working as a way of dealing with the sadness. No advice, just empathy. What a crappy boat to be in. 

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