(Closed) MARCH POAS (Part 3!!!)

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 556
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473 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Well I’m fairly sure I’m done for this month. My temp went down 0.2 degrees (celsius) today. Still above my coverline, and I was up a lot of the night (sleeping on the couch from 11pm – 2.30am, then went to bed, awake again at 4.10am and then temp taken at 5.30am) so there’s a very slim chance it’s just a fluke, but my boobs aren’t very sore anymore as of this morning either. Usually they stay sore until my period arrives but I don’t think any of this is good news. Pretty bummed but trying to remind myself that it’s only the first try. 

Post # 558
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295 posts
Helper bee

AlmostMrsShield:  sorry πŸ™ how long have you been trying for? have you seen a DR

Post # 559
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815 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

yellow7404:  this brings is to cycle 8….writing that is so hard, I’ve never been this emotional about it. This month is extra hard for some reason. I really just don’t know what we could possibly be doing wrong. I’ve decided to sit with a block of chocolate and one tree hill for the day and cry to myself all day. Woo! 

 

We we haven’t seen a dr, I went to see her a little while ago about some pains I was havinh and she suggested it *might* be endo. I don’t think it is, but she said come back in a couple of months if nothing happens.  

Post # 560
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

AlmostMrsShield:  I’m so so sorry. I wish I could provide some words of wisdom. Please be gentle with yourself. I think giving yourself a day to grieve and eat some comfort food is definitely the way to go.

Post # 561
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

crookedframe:  thank you. I’m so glad I can here and receive some comfort. I spoke to if about it last night, and asked why he never gets sad. apparently he does get sad he just “doesn’t let it overtake him” I can’t do that. I know in a few days I’ll be back on track and focused on the wedding again. At least this means plenty of champagne at my hens and wedding! πŸ˜€ but AF is due the day after the wedding :/ 

Post # 562
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

AlmostMrsShield:  Of course you can’t. It’s happening in your body. Even if you try to push it away, every possibility of a pregnancy symptom brings it back into your mind again. I totally get it. I think it’s so much easier for the partner who isn’t carrying the pregnancy, because it’s not so immediate. 

I’m glad you have your wedding to look forward to. Such an exciting time! You might get lucky and the stress of last minute wedding planning might push AF back a day or two.

Post # 563
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

crookedframe:  πŸ™‚ thanks! I can’t wait for my wedding!!! πŸ™‚ hopefully we can get in enough bd in between the last minute things to do! It is a bit weird to think by my next period I’ll be a mrs!!!!!:D and I guess at least we’ll be married before getting pregnant? Or before finding out we’re pregnant. Haha. That would be the greatest wedding present ever!!!!! 

Post # 564
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295 posts
Helper bee

AlmostMrsShield: Why are you trying before wedding day? I dont say that to be rude I just mean you must be under wedding stress and such! You dont want a drink on wedding day? I was under so much stress planning a wedding, I cant imagine TTC during it…

I know this may sound bad, but if I were you I would go to a different doctor and lie and say you have been trying for a year. I wouldn’t want to wait any longer especially if you already have a feeling you might have endro. I would go asap and fudge the truth a little bit πŸ™‚ That way I wouldnt even cry, I would be SO excited that I am finally getting checked out and getting an answer and a solution to get pregnant fast!   Thats what I would do! 

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Post # 565
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

yellow7404:  thanks for your concern πŸ™‚ we decided to try because we’re just too impatient! Lol. Weve been wanting to try for 2 years before we did ttC, we just couldn’t hold it Off any longer!!! To be honest, I’m not super stressed. Most things are done to be honest! I’m sure I will be stressed, but at least I don’t have lots to actually do so I won’t be burning myself out! 

 

I I actually had the same thought about going to another dr And lying. 8 months just seems like a long time. I’ve always had regular cycles, I am ovulating, I’m only 22, so I feel like either we’re doing something wrong, or there is something wrong. 

Post # 566
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1860 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

AlmostMrsShield:  I’m so sorry to hear that.. I was rooting for you!  I didn’t realize how young you are – I wouldn’t lie about having tried for longer than you have been.. I think it’s something like only a 20% chance of becoming pregnant each month when having unprotected sex.. so you could both be perfectly healthy and timing it right and it just won’t happen for awhile.. But the year TTC mark is a time to go check things out…

Now I’m just a crazy mixture of anticipation and excitement and fear.. since we had such similar TWW symptoms, I’m afraid AF will show up in the morning for me too……. but on the other hand I’m super excited to wake up and see what my temp does and possibly get a chance to test – I just want to know!

Post # 567
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

E_Lynne615:  Well, if my track record is anything to go by, you are pregnant! Anyone over the last 8 months who has said “I’ve got the same symptoms as you!” turns out to be pregnant!!!! SO I’m SUPER optimistic for you! πŸ˜€ I can’t wait to find out! As devastated as I am for myself, I love going on this journey with other ladies! It makes me excited for them too, and reminds me I still have  a heart and I’m not just a jealous bitch! haha. You have to update as soon as you know!!! πŸ˜€ 

Post # 568
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496 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

BFN for me. Just waiting for the old witch to arrive. I think I will take the evening to wallow in self pitty. I am not sure if we will skip April or not, will have to see what the doctor says! 

congratulations to all that got BFPs this month πŸ™‚

Post # 569
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815 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

BakeosaurusRex:  so sorry for you πŸ™ It’s a horrid feeling, but it just means you are one step closer to your BFP!!!

Post # 570
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1860 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

BakeosaurusRex:  Sorry to hear that.. how many DPO are you?

AlmostMrsShield:  Well, I hope your track record holds true for me, I will definitely update as soon as I have any news!!  I know what you mean about still being excited for others on the board.. helps keep me a little more sane too, knowing that there are others going through the same thing..

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