(Closed) Marriage after divorce.

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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3627 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Don’t accept a proposal until you’re absolutely sure you want to marry him. Perhaps couples counseling will help you get to that point. That way you can talk it out with him and a helpful third party. Good luck!

Post # 5
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790 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

No need to rush into marriage. If you already have a child and a divorce under your belt and you’re only 27, wait things out until you are sure beyond sure. This is especially important for your child, too.

Post # 6
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125 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I got divorced a little over 3 years ago, and have been with my current partner for a bit over 2 years.  He surprised me with a proposal after christmas which was, and is, lovely.  I love him with everything I have and I so desperately want it to work, but I’m in the same position as you, I’m terrified of falling out of love, which is what happened  with my last marriage.  Nothing serious like you mentioned you went through, it was just as simple as we stopped loving each other.

I did see a councellor when my marriage was dissolving, and the best piece of advise from her was to take the lessons you learnt in that relationship to the next one.  I just try and keep that in the front of my mind that it takes effort to love someone every single day and we both need to work at it.

I hope all this jumble makes sense!

Post # 7
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1309 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I think you should defnitely take your time and and definitely do premarital counseling too. Are you in therapy on your own? Such an unusual experience should probably be talked out to get to the bottom of why you did an emotional 180. That’s really the ONLY way to be sure it doesn’t happen again. Otherwise I would feel the same way you do (scared of another divorce).

 

 

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