(Closed) Marriage before Wedding – would you exchange rings?

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
321 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

We did this same exact thing–signed the papers in Dec. 10 but the wedding’s April 1.  (long time, I know, but our anniversary is April 1 and its unique!) We are keeping it secret and we didn’t exchange rings.  I still say I’m engaged and just don’t let anyone snoop in my wallet or see me sign my name because I changed it then.

Post # 4
9 posts
  • Wedding: May 2012

We are doing something similar…legal ceremony and a committment celebration 6 months later.  I want to exchange rings but we don’t have Fiance ring yet so we may wait.  If you don’t want anyone to know then I suppose he really can’t wear a ring.  May I ask why you need to keep it a secret?

Post # 5
187 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

If you’re keeping it secret, which I’m very familiar with as common especially for military couples, I definitely wouldn’t exchange rings.  After all, you want something to look forward to on your wedding and if you do decide to exchange, don’t forget to take them off!

Post # 6
849 posts
Busy bee

maybe you could exchange something else? I think that’d be a day you’d want a memoir for too 🙂

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