Post # 76
I have a spouse who travels for work, too, sometimes with women. I have full trust and no issues with it whatsoever. But going on one on one date like activities before and after a conference, even days ahead of time is not even a little bit reasonable. The fact that he prioritizes her and talks about you behind your back to her is completely unacceptable. Not all counselors are competent.
Post # 77
Not all counselors are competent.
Preach it. And, a lot of Bees whos SOs are obviously cheating are going to the same therapist.
Post # 78
weddingmaven : Amen to that…OP needs to find an new counselor. A worthy counselor would never tell a person to put aside their discomfort and allow their spouse space to be themselves when there is a clear boundary and blatant boundary violation like this.