Marriage Boundaries Compromised or Jealousy?

posted 2 months ago in Relationships
Post # 76
Member
12651 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I have a spouse who travels for work, too, sometimes with women. I have full trust and no issues with it whatsoever. But going on one on one date like activities before and after a conference, even days ahead of time is not even a little bit reasonable. The fact that he prioritizes her and talks about you behind your back to her is completely unacceptable. Not all counselors are competent. 

Post # 77
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11194 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

weddingmaven :  

Not all counselors are competent.

Preach it.  And, a lot of Bees whos SOs are obviously cheating are going to the same therapist.

Post # 78
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690 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2005

weddingmaven :  Amen to that…OP needs to find an new counselor. A worthy counselor would never tell a person to put aside their discomfort and allow their spouse space to be themselves when there is a clear boundary and blatant boundary violation like this. 

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