MemberI believe Mrs. Grape is having a family get together the next day or something. Not a whole wedding again, but a “We got married” party. That’s how I took it anyway.
Memberand I am now going to walk away from this thread. Subject closed.
MemberYikes! Different strokes for different folks. It is or isn’t your wedding depending on what YOU think. If someone thinks it is their wedding, it is! If not, then not! It all depends on how each person defines their wedding, and there is not right or wrong. It does seem silly to say what is/ isn’t a wedding for someone ELSE though.
I agree with RR
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MemberThank you. i don’t really care if people agree with me or not. our ceremony with our friends, with our family, the one where my father is going to walk me down the aisle, is going to by wedding. since i doubt the people who disagree are going to be there on my wedding day holding up protest signs outside the church, i really don’t care what they think. I may have gotten legally married a year before, but my friends and family weren’t there, and it is still important to me to have the traditional wedding, to have my father walk me down the aisle. i don’t think my husband and I should be punished simply because we wanted to be stationed together first.
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