- 1 month ago
- Wedding: October 2019
alezv87 : You were handling this situation very well till you let the few bees on here who want to blow up your marriage and causing drama get in your head.
If you trust him, which you should as he has done nothing to break your trust believe him that this is an innocent friendship because all sign say it is. Get off the crazy train and stop listening to women who have been with manipulative cheating assholes who want to put their experiences on him and you. By your account he is a kind loving partner who is always helping others and is a great guy and is working with you to repair your relationship. He makes a good point.
“He asked me why I thought that he would be working with me to save our marriage and simultaneously having an inappropriate relationship with someone else, and said that he has been completely honest with me about the nature of his friendship and that he’s doing nothing wrong.”
Nothing drives people apart like accusing an innocent person of something. Quite frankly you are making me question why he is staying with you. Why would you stay with someone who assumes the worst of you.
Believe your husband because he is a good man and you trust him. Honestly do you think he is lying to you?
There are TONS of crazy girls in the world. Don’t join them! -The mother of a guy I dated in HS messaged me to tell me she had to unfriend me on facebook, because 12 years after we dated his now wife saw his mom and I were facebook friend and won’t let her see her grandchildren if she doesn’t unfriend me. Legit hadn’t talked to her in years. But now I know that guys wife is insecure, jealous and crazy!
If you want to repair the damage you just did in therapy, which may have destroyed your marriage because you staight up told him that you don’t trust him and think he is lying to you and being shady. You need to tell him.”I trust you. I really do trust you and I believe you that there is nothing inappropriate going on. I believe you. I am really sorry that I brought her up. You being close with her bothers me but I will work on it because I trust you. We had a fantastic time together and I am really looking forward to going away again.”