(Closed) Marriage is a waste…who gets married anyway….still time to change your mind.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee

Dont feed into it. Dont respond in any way to those comments. If its in person or on fb just dont say anything in response. Pretend it wasnt said.

Its like a sibling that teases, if they dont get the reaction they are looking for, then its not fun and it will stop.

It can get annoying! Sorry he is being a pain in the bum.

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

ignore it! some people are very jaded when it comes to marriage – sucks for them!

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Oh man it sounds like someone might be jealous! I would feel the same way you do, that is crap! Has Fiance said anything to him about it?

Post # 8
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6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I agree, it sucks to be him!

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ugh thats annoying! im so sorry you have to deal with it, i would be upset too..but seeing that your so close i guess it wouldnt really be a great idea to say anything now, really wouldnt want anything to mess up your wedding party..I hope you can find some way to deal with his crap for the short time you have left, just think of ur big day and how great its going to be to marry the man you love =) Good luck!!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Crisark: Oh no, I saw that but I didn’t realize he was a groomsman 🙁

One of my FI’s groomsmen has always hated me for some reason. He actually succeeded in breaking us up once, but when we got back together Fiance told him that if he said one word against me ever again, he was choosing me over him. They stayed friends and I’m super nervous about what this guy will say at the wedding (he’s the guy that will just HAVE to give a toast) but I just try to ignore it. Funny enough, he’s the one that has relationship issues in the group… I think they’re just jealous 🙂

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I had my BOSS tell me for 4 months, “why are you getting married”  “you are almost 40”.  “I wouldn’t have gotten married if I could turn back time”.  NO ONE is the same.  He needs to get over his failures in life.  You be happy and CONGRATS!  Only one month!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  YIPEE!!!!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@Crisark: I’d be mad too. You can delete his comment on Facebook if it will make you feel better.

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