Marriage is kicking my ass

posted 1 year ago in Married Life
Post # 46
Member
1145 posts
Bumble bee

Amy Elizabeth :  Think really hard why you married him in the first place. Is that love still there? Can you commit to loving him again? I get his behavior is very hurtful. Best of luck. 

 

Post # 47
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375 posts
Helper bee

I’d be pretty hurt that my partner who I’ve been with for only  2.5 years was saying he was unhappy for 2 years.  

I’m not sure if I’d stay. 

What has made him so  unhappy?

Post # 49
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754 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2018 - City, State

Amy Elizabeth :  

I think he felt so much pressure at losing a job and then he’s looking at the engagement and wedding and all that money that was spent and feeling stressed and resentful. Wishing he saved it instead of spending it? and in his effort to out blame somewhere has thrown it at you!

I might be wrong but I feel like the issue could be the finances and he’s wrongly accusing you and making this big claims … Not making excuses for him though. it’s anshutty thing to say and for you to cop on the chi 🙁

Post # 51
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754 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2018 - City, State

Amy Elizabeth :

I hope I’m right lol! When I was made redundant I looked at all my expenses and started regretting not being better with my money and I was super stressed. But I got work pretty quickly after and my mood shifted pretty fast when I got that contract!

If this is the case he is still super shitty for what he is claiming but at least you can be assured it dramatic claims rather than truth. 

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