(Closed) Marriage Language

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee

Lol, yes, I’ve been listening to it for over 2 years now!! 

I know how you feel though, I remember it was sooo exciting at first, and my heart would flutter when I heard it. Now, not so much, it’s more annoying than anything else. But I’m super excited for you and I hope that YOUR SO will do differently and not kill the joy for you by ‘playing it’ like a broken record ๐Ÿ˜€

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Ahh very much so. SO always says, when were married/engaged, we will do this, he will do that. It’s encouraging as his words are now as a plural rather than singular – I just wish his actions were to follow!

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Yay those are all really good signs!  I’m so excited for you!  Especially that comment “Its going to happen sooner than you think”…wow that is so awesome!  I would be jumping in my skin ๐Ÿ™‚

As a matter of fact, SO initiated a timeline conversation last week!  He asked me what I thought about having kids in five years…and getting married in two years!  Eeeep!  I asked him when he thought we would be getting engaged.  He laughed and said he would never tell me exactly (he likes to surprise, and I love being surprised!).  I pointed out that we need a year of engagement…so he said “any day from tomorrow to a year from now!”  I’m so excited it is on the horizon!

If it were up to me…I’d say engaged in 2012, married in 2014 (I am superstitous about 2013), and trying for kids starting 2016

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Ooh how exciting! I totally think it is going to happen very soon! Isn’t it funny how you can just tell when he is on the right page becuase of the words he is using? Ive got my fingers crossed for you!

Post # 7
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Blushing bee

My boyfriend was speaking that language all the time until I started, now he hasn’t mentioned a word. So i stopped. Sealed ….oh the joys of waiting Frown

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Reign14: just in case the world ends in 2012.. buahahaha

Fiance and I used to say we weren’t marrying till 2013 in case the world ended in 2012, we changed our mind but we’re doing it before Dec 21st.

 

At least you know it’s coming, I love when they’re the ones bringing the marriage subject.

Post # 9
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Busy bee

aw, that’s so sweet! Mine doesn’t do it much, he talks more about living together or having kids, but the other day he accidently called our relationship “this marriage”. I didn’t say anything but it made me excited.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I think it’s really sweet he’s so serious about you living your whole lives together. Not that anyone goes into a marriage wishing it won’t work, but he sounds like he has really thought it through. I hope you have an engagment story to share in the “near future” =)

Post # 11
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Newbee

@Reign14:

Yayyyy congrats Reign14, I hope it comes quickly for u!!!  And yes I have had the talk for about 2 years now as well.  At this point for me, It is very annoying.  But back to u, that’s awesome and the holidays are aound the corner, maybe very soon ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

That is really sweet. I hope it happens for you very soon

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Love this! Good progress!

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