(Closed) Marriage Prep?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

lol – I’ve read no books, but can tell you that your marriage will work as long as you work on your marraige.  🙂 

Books can give you generalizations, just like posts on the Bee or any other outside source, but only you and your H can tell if you are communicating effectively.  Does your H know how you worry about the demons of your parents’ marriage effecting yours?  It’d be pretty hard for someone from a non-broken home to understand the fears of someone with (multiple) divorced parents.  Even if your parents were the most awesome ever and never subjected you to any kind of abuse, there is still a lack of security that kids from broken homes feel that kids from ‘whole’ homes can’t comprehend. 

I think you might just have some low-level anxiety about it, and I think you might share with him how nervous your parents’ failures make you feel, and tell him that you want to do eveything you can to make sure you guys don’t face divorce.  And, if he tells you one thing to help avoid divorce is to stop worrying about divirce, listen to him 🙂

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