(Closed) married 2 weeks and not wearing the bling!

posted 12 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
213 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I think that the wedding ring seems like it fits your lifestyle better.  I wouldn’t bring up the fact that your not wearing your e-ring to him, but if he ever asks, tell him the truth.  In this case, the truth is very logical.

I won’t be wearing a wedding band in the near future and I’m not sure if I’ll ever have one. 

Post # 4
3315 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

This would be why we’re having only plain gold bands as our wedding rings, and no engagement rings.  Ok, that’s probably not what you wanted to hear…  😉

Post # 5
2470 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would simply answer "Yes, I LOVE the rings and with all the action I do outdoors there’s no WAY I’d risk those rings"

Post # 6
200 posts
Helper bee

This makes perfect sense to me. Why not have an everyday-active-life-style ring and then pretty shiny, sparkly rings that you put on when you’re on holidays or going out to dinner/work functions or what have you. Any reasonable bloke should not have any trouble understanding this.

Post # 7
541 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I don’t think it’s a big deal. You can wear your fancy ones for shopping or out to dinner. The point is that you are wearing A ring – which is the symbolic part.

Honestly, I only wear my e-ring when I’m going out for an extended period of time. I never wear when I’m cooking because I don’t want it getting dirty and I usually don’t wear it when I’m just hanging out at home. My Fiance doesn’t mind 🙂

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