(Closed) Married 5 weeks and I don't know where i fit in

posted 4 years ago in Married Life
Post # 2
356 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

nerdybride121:  I think his response to you was very sweet. Maybe I’m missing something… Are you just feeling frustrated that you’ve had to drop your previous life to care for him? I can understand losing a bit of your identity in that regard but know its for the sake of your marriage. You have a new identity now as a married woman and it sounds like he is pretty appreciative of you.

Post # 3
4439 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

nerdybride121:  Can his adult sons come relieve you of care-taking so you can get out of the house occassionally and do something for yourself?  It sounds like you kind of ARE in a holding pattern, when will he be better?  Just keep in mind that this is temporary!  If you made it through 4.5 years you can make it thorugh his injury!

Post # 4
857 posts
Busy bee

U agree with Bee said above. He has you and thats what is important to him. Remember he is probably going through a tough time too, and of course this is super tough on you. But stay positive, you guys will get throguh this. 

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