- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2012
Sometimes my husband says he’s going to do one thing and does another. Example… stop by to drop off something at his friends house and ends up staying having a few beers. He won’t let me know until I call and find out that he decided to stay and hang out. I get upset because I simply want him home. He gets mad because he feels he has no obligation that day to me, so he can do whatever, such as hang out with the guys. I ususally don’t know what he’s up to until I call him, he does it frequently and tells me, “oh so so called me to hang out have a beer”. I tell him to let me know, he says it wasn’t planned and it was a “spontaneous thing”. Or says he doesn’t tell me because he knows I will get upset. There’s been many times I do get upset and ask him to come home, he won’t, he makes me wait. I just want him home like a good hubby. He thinks I’m selfish and jealous for wanting him home even when we don’t have plans. His motto is, if me and him don’t have any plans, he should be free to do whatever he wants. And I can do the same. I’m pregnant, so even though if I wanted to, can’t.
What do you guys think, is it me, or him. Do your men do this? Am I being selfish?