(Closed) Married bees, did you smash cake in each others faces?

posted 9 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: Did you smash cake in each others faces?

    Yes.

    No.

    He/she did mine, but I didn't do his/hers.

    I did his/hers but he/she knew better than to do mine!

    Other/Explain.

  • Post # 17
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    No way… I didnt spend all that time and money doing my make up to ruin it! and considering how expensive and tasty the cake was, I didnt wanna waste any of it either!!

    Post # 18
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Haha… well we didn’t… but then all of our family started yelling “come on, get him!” and I ended up sticking my finger in the icing and smearing it on his face. Teehee. He was kind of shocked. 🙂

    Post # 19
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

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    @elliestan:  Thank you!  It’s so much fun to look back at them!

    Post # 21
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    Busy Beekeeper

    No – we didn’t.  I wasn’t about to let anything ruin my make up – and neither of us wanted cake anywhere but in our mouths.

    Funny side note cake story – DH thought he was supposed to feed himself instead of me (much like toasting).  It was hilarious when he almost took a bite and I said:  HEY!!  That’s for ME!!!!!

    Post # 22
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We did and I don’t regret it one bit. Prior to our cake cutting I was strictly in the “absolutely not” camp but in the heat of the moment (and at the urge of nearly everyone standing in the front row), we did it and it was great. I took what was left on the plate (a very small piece) and ever so lovingly smashed it against DH’s face. Our guests LOVED it. He was about to do it to me but I think he saw the horror on my mothers face so instead he just pulled me in for a kiss which still ended up being pretty messy. At that point I had already sweat off most of my makeup from dancing so it really wasn’t a big deal. A few minutes later we were in our photo booth with a bunch of our friends and one of my BM’s husbands brought DH some of his cake for retaliation. He wiped frosting on my cheeks and we called a truce. 🙂

    Post # 23
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Nope! My mother n law had a talk with me and she made it very clear she wanted none of that lol 

    We weren’t going to do that anyway as we don’t like that but she was like “umm no” haha

    Post # 24
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

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    @Crisark: ha! my mom has said for years and years that she would be so pissed if I did that at my wedding because our pastor had said it’s so disrespectful to do to your new spouse.

    We didn’t mostly cause I didn’t want to deal with cake mess, but DH wanted to. I said multiple times that he be hanging with Rosie Palmer that night if he did, and he must have gotten the hint because he didn’t do it! I think I had him feed me first too like a PP said – just in case!

    Post # 25
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Just a tad. It was really funny! I waited until he fed me nicely and then I smushed it a bit on him. haha

    Post # 26
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I really wanted to just dab a little on his nose, but he wasn’t having it. 

    Post # 27
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Its not our wedding yet, but absolutly not!

    Post # 28
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I admit, I smushed a little bit.  I had to!  The temptation was too great.  But, I was expecting it from him and he was nice.  

    Post # 29
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I am not married yet, but there will be no cake smashing. My mom will be livid if it happens and she will probably chew my fiance out in the middle of the reception. I feel that it’s disrespectful and not something I wanted anyway, so it’s not a big deal. I told my fiance he is allowed to put frosting on my nose (we have a nose thing) but that’s it.

     

    Post # 30
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

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    @hisgoosiegirl: lol DH and I laughed the night before about it cause we knew if we even dared his mom would have been up there yelling or something lol So we were good kids 🙂

    Post # 31
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    We didn’t, but I was worried he was going to, so I was making weird faces the entire time, lol. 

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