(Closed) married bees- next day breakfast/lunch worth it?

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
2320 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

We went to brunch with DH’s father (and some other guests) who were in from out of town. It was nice to spend time with him but I was so tired, all I wanted to do was cuddle with my new husband in bed. I wouldn’t have done it if he hadn’t offered to pay for it, honestly!

Post # 4
1664 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

We didn’t have one, but a couple friends and relatives asked if we were going to.  When we said no, the response was “Whew, good!”  I attended one as an out of town guest, and it was ok. I thought it was a nice thought, but I felt pressured when I kind of just wanted to take my time getting ready and maybe see some sights before I had to leave.

You’re probably going to want to spend time with your husband anyway.  If you want to spend more time with certain friends and relatives, I would arrange another visit.

Post # 5
11167 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

My FI’s family has a tradition of hosting a bbq the day after any large event including weddings. At first I thought it might be strange but to be honest I have always really enjoyed spending quality time with everyone and recapping the previous day’s events.

For our wedding we are having a potluck dinner with my side of the family whoever is still around the day after (Saturday) and then the following day (Sunday) having a bbq with all his family before the few Out of Town guests leave.

It all depends on how much help you can get and how many people will stay. I would definitely not recommend doing it yourself on top of getting ready for the honeymoon.

Post # 6
7311 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

My parents hosted one at the venue where we got married (a B&B) and it was so nice to be able to spend more time with our guests. I am really glad we had the extra hangout time with everyone.

Post # 7
822 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

My parents hosted the day after brunch at their house, it didn’t start until 11 so we got a sleep in at the hotel we stayed in and had the morning together.

We found it fantastic.  My parents got the food catered so they didn’t have to do anything, it was a beautiful day and their house backs onto the beach so everyone was relaxed and layd back, picnicing on blankets or there was beach cricket etc set up for people that wanted to do things.

My Darling Husband and I did make an effort to talk to everyone at our wedding but it was so brief so we found the day after was nice to be able to chat more to everyone – especially people who had come from overseas for our day.

Post # 8
10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Totally worth it! We had a number of guests stay overnight at our venue (we were married at a hotel) so it was nice to spend a little extra time with them. The hotel has a breakfast buffet anyway so we just reserved a small space over to the side for just our party. My IL’s actually hosted it since the majority was DH’s side. 

Post # 9
2463 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I loved ours–it was maybe the most laid back part of the wedding weekend, so really good for quality time with the oot-ers. 

Post # 10
13 posts
  • Wedding: August 2011

We are having a Destination Wedding, and plan on having a Welcome Party two nights before the wedding.  Because of this we won’t be having a next day breakfast/brunch.  We want to party away on our wedding night, so worrying about something the next day does not sound appealing to us.  Just go with whatever sounds right to you. 

Post # 11
221 posts
Helper bee

The last two weddings I was at had them, and they were both quite far from where we live. It’s nice if you have a lot of Out of Town guests because then you get to spend one more meal with them and thank them for coming. FI’s parents offered to host brunch the day after our wedding, which I’m so thankful for.

Post # 12
529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would love to have one, but I’m not sure how the guests would like it. Since our dream venue is about 1 to 1.5 hours away from our guests, we were thinking of either paying for the wedding partys attire (BM dresses and Groomsmen tuxes), or for a night in the hotel. I think this would kill two birds with one stone becuase we’d get to have a more intimate brunch with our wedding party, and also there’d be no drinking and driving. Fiance likes the idea, but the wedding isn’t for another two years, so we’ll see as it gets closer what everyone thinks

Post # 13
921 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@rebwana:  YES! IT was an awesome and much more chill experience–really glad we did it since we couldn’t do a rehearsal dinner.

Post # 14
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

We had one at a local restaurant. It was really nice to relax together after the wedding and visit for a bit longer with our Out of Town guests 🙂

Post # 16
756 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Ours was impromptu but still great. We spent the wedding night in the same hotel as most of our Out of Town guests, and when we went down for breakfast in the morning, DH’s entire extended family was there as well. Several of them were leaving for the airport within the hour, so it was great to see them before they left and to hear about how much fun they’d had.

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