(Closed) Married Bees- Valentine's Plans/Gifts (POLL)

posted 4 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: Do you celebrate Valentine's Day and How?
    YES! we go do something fun but we don't do gifts. : (33 votes)
    20 %
    YES! we go do something fun and we do gifts! : (35 votes)
    22 %
    YES! my SO plans it all but I don't do anything. : (5 votes)
    3 %
    YES! i plan everything but SO doesn't do much. : (4 votes)
    2 %
    NO! we don't do valentine's day. just not into it. : (26 votes)
    16 %
    We do small homemade gifts and hang out at home. : (12 votes)
    7 %
    We enjoy a romantic night at home together but no gifts. : (36 votes)
    22 %
    We go on an extravagant vacation for valentine's day! : (3 votes)
    2 %
    Other- explain! : (8 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 2
    9526 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    We do small gifts at random points and enjoy experiences more for special occasions. We will probably get a room, a nice dinner, maybe see a show or go to a casino. A couple years ago we went to a strip club, had bottle service and a fun sexy night out. 

    What does your husband like? Hobbies, interests, how does he like to be spoiled?

    Post # 3
    105 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    We really never do anything. We’re always up for an excuse to go out to eat, but for Valentine’s Day it’s just not worth it. Way too crowded everywhere! We don’t exchange gifts either… it just has always been a commercial thing to us… and he’s impossible to shop for. haha. It seems weird to follow a “make this random day special for your relationship/love!” day to us. =\ Sorry!

    Take something you guys really enjoy together and elevate it or make it unique somehow that’s more geared towards his preferences/likes/enjoyments. Without knowing either if you, giving you any options that aren’t cliche/typical/lame are kind of difficult! 😉


    Post # 6
    7430 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    We tell each other happy Valentine’s Day, but that’s about it. Neither of us think of it as a very important holiday.

    Post # 7
    9526 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    mrshomemaker:  Do you have an observatory where you live? He might like a night to go and see an event or show.

    A nice bag? Perfect!

    Post # 9
    7873 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    We exchange cards. That’s about it.

    Post # 10
    3040 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2016

    Walking dead is my only concern on Valentine’s.

    Post # 11
    37 posts
    • Wedding: May 2016

    My fiance and I celebrate Valentines day.  We may go out for a nice dinner,  last year we went for a mini vacation for two nights. We exchange gifts but nothing extravagant.  

     We also take turns planning our “romantic” holidays.  One year I’ll plan Valentines day and he’ll plan our anniversary.  The next year we switch.  

    Post # 12
    6107 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I voted “other” because we usually go out to a nice dinner. The only catch about ours is that we go the day after Valentine’s Day because it’s always so packed on V-Day. Some people might think “what’s the point if it’s not on the actual day” but it’s become a little tradition for us.

    Post # 13
    1303 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: Hawksnest Cove Beach St John USVI

    Our anniversary is Valentine’s Day which we chose because of the history of the day.  This is our first anniversary so we are taking a vacation together for a week and I am getting a small one tier cake made before we go. He said he’s planning something nice during our trip as my gift. 

    Before we were married we would go to dinner and he would get me flowers.

    Post # 14
    9588 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2015

    We have a nice dinner out or make one at home depending on what day it falls. He’ll give me flowers and I’ll give him a card. Past that, no gifts. I mean between Christmas, anniversaries and bdays, it’s just too much! 

    Post # 15
    784 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2016 - Simsbury 1820 House

    Fiance and I both get something small for each other and I’m sure we’ll do something fun on Valentine’s Day. Maybe go bowling.

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