(Closed) Married bees…did you get busy with your hubby on your wedding night?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Did you and your husband have sex on your wedding night?
    Nope, we were exhausted! : (26 votes)
    30 %
    Yes! It's our wedding night! : (60 votes)
    70 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    145 posts
    Blushing bee

    We managed it without difficulty (and in between bouts of taking care of some very drunken guests, no less).  I have two suggestions.  First, get started as soon as you get to your room.  If you shower/bath/lay down and relax first, the tiredness can take over.  Second, don’t attempt epic, romance-novel sex or try something very new and different.  Go into it expecting nice, average sex and it will be fun! 

    Post # 4
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    1045 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2008

    My main suggestions are: don’t drink too much at the reception (definitely at least alternate alcoholic drinks with water, or just limit yourself to what you can handle without getting overly tipsy) and dont try to be the last man standing (your friends and family can entertain themselves if they want to stick around for an after-party).  Not sure what your logistics situation is, but is it possible for one of the bridal party members to get your room ready for you before you go up?  We were staying at the hotel where our reception was, and our best man went up and cleared away all the mess, put candles and flowers everywhere, and had someone bring up a little snack tray (cheese, fruit, wedding cake) for us to have later, and it really helped set the mood, to have such a gorgeous, romantic room to go back to (instead of a chaotic mess).

    Post # 5
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    2725 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    We were tired but we managed! We even left our after-party early so we could go home and “celebrate”.

    Post # 6
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    3098 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    Ack, no! We made the mistake of eating, taking off the uncomfy wedding clothes, and tearing through the cards…. we both straight up passed out. :/

    Post # 7
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    364 posts
    Helper bee

    Nope. ๐Ÿ™ I passed out at 10:00ish and he stayed up watching the Goonies. We made up for it the following night though. ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Post # 8
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    1813 posts
    Buzzing bee

    we had a 4:00 wedding, but since I was losing my virginity to him, we technically did, but I’m sure it wasn’t great for him     luckily it was still really a special night!

    Post # 9
    Member
    987 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    Nope, but we got busy first thing in the am though

    Post # 10
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    5273 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    Heck to the Yes! We didn’t want to be one of those couples who didn’t.

    For fun I wore a white cute little babydoll and a veil ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 11
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    1363 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Ahead of time, I was kind of expecting us to be too tired, and while I was exhausted, we had a very good time together.

    Post # 12
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    14186 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    we had a 6pm wedding and i’d been up since, oh, 630am, 7am or so. we weren’t too tired…we powered through! We had a few drinks and he was pawing at me the whole way to the room.

    Post # 13
    Member
    2004 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2008

    My husband spent our wedding night with a stomach flu. So, no, we didn’t. Sometimes life throws you a curveball!

    Post # 14
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    469 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2008

    Yes.  And even though we’d been living together (and….) for 4 years at that point, it was still amazing.  I’m really, really happy we did ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 15
    Hostess
    18644 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    We were too tired honestly.  And with my health stuff, sex hasn’t been too amazing lately sadly.

    Plus going back to your own house isn’t really too romantic.

    Post # 16
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    1508 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2009

    We tried, but things didn’t physically work out. I think we were over tired and nervous. We did do it the next morning, not great but the deed was done. We were both virgins.

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