(Closed) Married for 4 years and no baby!

posted 7 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
2889 posts
Sugar bee

We have been married for 2 years but don’t plan to start TTC anytime in the next 2 years. Sometimes I feel pressure but it is really internal pressure I put on myself when I see friends having kids who got married after me. In fact I was taling to a former colelague about it and he had a really good perspective which wwas basically the point that having children is such a personal decision you should never feel pressure from otheres and always make this decision with your husband based on your lives. As far as fertility, my OBGYN said she only asks patients to make a decision on children at 35 so you still have some time to TTC.  By no means should anyone see you not having kids as a fault on your marriage. 

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