Post # 46
SaraJeanQ: I was referring to you bringing up the “till death do us part” vow. If that’s not a very conservative idea of marriage, what is? As far as I’m concerned it’s a very odd thing to say to someone who is having serious difficulties in her marriage.
That said, I’m sure we’re in agreement about the importance of the OP trying much harder to talk to her husband.
Post # 47
katsc2016: so he’s avoiding you? If it were me I’d corner him (so he can’t “sneak away”) and demand to know the reason. I’m confused by your post…there was absolutely nothing wrong until October? And you’re already willing to give up on the marriage? If it were me I’d be getting to the bottom of it before throwing in the towel.
ETA-I only read the OP’s first post, so I have not read any updates or anything. It’s strictly in response to the original one.
Post # 48
I appreciate everyone’s comments. I spoke to him about the issue of him ignoring me, ignoring holidays, sneaking out of the house and how I feel it is disrespectful.
I have spoken to him about this issue at least 20 times, not once, so there seems to be some misinterpretation regarding my comments.
This post has taken a very negative direction and I regret even posting it.
I do appreciate the few bees who did post some supportive and great ideas, thank you.