Post # 1
hey all – I found these cute little wedding favors online, that are basically just little matchboxes with a cute design that will say “A + J” “the Perfect Match”. Kinda cheesy and punny, just like us. And best of all, super affordable. Ive heard so many people say that they never care about favors at weddings, and from personal experience I usually bring the favor home not because I find it something I really want to keep but more so because I don’t want to offend by leaving it behind. I figured everyone can use matches, and then not feel bad throwing out the box when they’re done with it.
But anyways, I told this idea to my mom and she told me it is cheap and tacky. What are your thoughts?
Post # 2
In before “people only want edible favors!”! (Okay no but seriously that’s all I see on this site haha We had non-edible favors and the vast majority of our guests took theirs and even complimented us on them!)
I think it sounds cute and pretty practical (like you said, matches are something most people use!) so why not? Wedding favors are just a cute little bonus detail and I know that as a guest, I always appreciate whatever the favors are!
Post # 3
We didn’t technically have favors at our wedding, as we went with the ever controversial donation-in-leue, however we did have personalized matchbooks printed and placed in bowls on the bars throughout our venue. We did get lots of complements on them, and guests who wanted them could grab a pack or two, and those who didn’t just didn’t take them. Perhaps instead of having a matchbook at each place setting, they could be placed in a bowl in the bar or by the guest book or whatever other common area that may work in your venue. Remove the obiglation from the guest not to leave them if they do not want them.
Post # 5
I would not call them tacky but favors are not traditional or necessary. Save your money. These were apparently common generations ago when everyone smoked, including at affairs. I don’t see any point to it now.
Post # 6
Practical and simple! I like it!
I like the idea of leaving them in bowls as a past poster said!
Post # 7
I had favors that basically everyone on this site hates lol – I did koozies and a scratch off lottery ticket. Whatever. All my friends do koozies and I wanted to add my own wedding to the collection and the lottery tickets were a little something fun. I also gave out flip flops on the dance floor and they were a hit (people on this site told me not to)
Honestly, I had a full cocktail hour (enough food for dinner for sure – 12 passed apps and 2 stations), a full 3 course dinner, dessert bar, cake, and late night pizza and soft pretzels. The last thing I wanted to give people was another piece of food.
I don’t think there was any illusion it wasn’t a cheap little something – lottery tickets are exactly a dollar. A few people won $10 or $20.
It was fun!! Who cares if the worst thing people think is “wow a little cheap”. The vast majority of your guests will either think “Oh how cute!” or think nothing at all/not notice. I’d say go for it.
Post # 8
- Wedding: June 2019 - City, State
I would love that!! So practical.
Post # 9
I’m team favors aren’t necessary but personally, I’d love that as a guest! If you want to class it up a bit, you could do long stem matches in those cute little glass jars – just a thought. 🙂
Post # 10
I would love matchboxes and would abscond with any left over! I like the way they look and work, (sliding open), and matches are handy. I also like the retro-ness of them.
If you had said matchbooks, then I would say “meh”.
eta: I would put containers of them at the bars and maybe a small container on each table rather than put them at each seat.
Post # 11
I like the idea! Very practical! And while it’s personalized, it’s a short term thing that will end up in the trash but after being used so I don’t mind. I much prefer that to a personalized cup or such. Idk why it’d be tacky. Go for it!
Post # 12
I’m also usually team No Favors, but I would for sure grab a matchbook at the end of the night! Cute and practical.
Post # 13
When I read the title I thought you meant matchbox cars haha. I would take how a matchbox!
Post # 14
I think they are super cute. Would be especially great if you had a cigar bar 🙂
Post # 15
For what it’s worth, I would be delighted with scratch off lotto tickets as a favor!