(Closed) matron of honor really starting to get under my skin…..

posted 6 years ago in Decor
Post # 3
717 posts
Busy bee

i’m sorry she’s giving you grief.  seems like she’s just acting out a bit, maybe trying to take some of the spotlight for herself?  maybe try to tell her in a serious but nonconfrontational way that this is bothering.  if she’s loud and used to being seen and heard, it might be bothering a bit not being the center of attention.  try to tune her out or tell her to tone it down.

Post # 4
80 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I hear ya.  I’m having the same issues with one of my BM’s and her boyfriend, who is one of the Groomsmen.  The two of them together…omg.  They have an opinion about EVERYTHING regarding our wedding, about our choices with food, decor, even vendors…  I know how you feel.  They’ve made bridezilla comments about me as well…and I am far from it.  I’ve have made such a point of being really flexible about everything, and am leaving a lot up to them as far as what they’ll wear, etc…but if I have an opinion one way or another about anything, then all of a sudden I’m being a bridezilla.  Try to ignore her comments and try not to let them bother you, especially since she’s like that normally.  It’s probably amplified because one, you could be hypersensitive (I have a lot higher tolerance for ball busting and teasing when it doesn’t have to do with my wedding!), or two, she is jealous of the attention you’re getting, and jealous that you are in the middle of the most exciting time of your life.  It sucks though that some friends envy you & feel like they need to bring you down, instead of being happy for you & being supportive.  So not fun.

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