(Closed) Mature Content–Porn

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
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Helper bee
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@jeanie3:  I’m from that old school way of thought too.  I mean, yeah people will say “well he’s a guy thats what they do” but for some (a LOT more than you all think) it becomes a problem, a compulsion, where they even are disgusted with themselves for doing it but its like an addiction.  I definitely think its a problem when his fiancee is right there in the room with him, he could approach her and initiate, but he would rather lay back and look at porn to get off.  THAT’S not right.  Thats when you know there is a problem.  It’s not like you two are celibate and he’s turning to that to avoid pressuring you into anything.  Pictures and videos of sex should NOT be a substitute for a real live person who loves you.

 

I would definitely talk to him about all that and tell him exactly how you feel.  That you are offended by it and it makes you feel bad that he would rather look at pics than do stuff with you.  Don’t sound accusitory just be honest.  Good luck <3

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