(Closed) MAY 2011 RSVP Counts!

posted 9 years ago in May 2011
Post # 92
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114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Wedding Date: May 28, 2011

Date mailed: March 16, 2011

RSVP date: April 30

# of invitations: 110 mailed

# of guests: 220 plus us and 3 vendors

RSVP Yes: 61

RSVP No: 3

Not yet Replied:  69

 

 

Is this normal for this many people to have not yet responed. I am totally freaking out. They still have 2 weeks

Post # 93
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3295 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@jhair1111: i still have people that havent responded…. i gave them till apr25th…. im getting nervous though. where in indiana are you from?!

Post # 94
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1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Update:

Date mailed: March 7th (OOT invites were sent a week or two earlier)

RSVP date: April 30th

# of invitations: 35

# of guests: 51 (including bridal party, not including bride and groom)

RSVP Yes: 43

RSVP No: 4

Still waiting to hear from: 4

Post # 95
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114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@Stephanie~ It is very fustrating. This is the 4th day that I haven’t gotten any in the mail again. I used to be excitied to check the mail, and now it is just depressing!! I am in Highland! 

Post # 96
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102 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

First can I say that I am happy to see other brides secretly hope that some people say No..lol…I love everyone were inviting but I am trying to stick to my budget!

and can I say a little prayer that I will not have to track people down and make calls to the rude people who do not rsvp! I am a control freak. i need to know that its a “no” not a “im too lazy to send it back but i will be there on ur big day”

Post # 97
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166 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Date Mailed – March 3rd

RSVP Date – April 20

 # Of Invitations– 70

 # Of Guests– 162

 RSVP Yes: 76

 RSVP No: 39

Not yet Relpied: 47

I hate how slow these are coming in!! I think worse than that is when i see people who have yet to respond and I ask them if theyre coming they look at me like –of course i am!!– well how about send your responce card back!! ahh sorry im venting 🙂

Post # 98
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3295 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@jhair1111: yes it is…. im annoyed already…. i dont know what im gonna be like when the 25th rolls around and i dont have them all back. its just so rude…. i mean its a pre addressed stamped postcard…. check yes or no and drop it in the damn mail box for gosh sakes…. and i have noooooooo idea where highland is!!! but im from ft wayne 🙂

@miss jenny: i get excited for no’s lol

Post # 99
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3068 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

SO mm RSVP deadline was Saturday the 16th but I am still missing about 10 RSVPS. I am giving the until Wednesday in case some people sent them out late. Should I just assume those people arent coming if I dont receive them?

Post # 100
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660 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@Tswife4ever: I would give them a call to see…some ppl just forget to send them in.

Post # 101
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660 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Date Mailed – March 27

RSVP Date – May 1

 # Of Invitations– 127 sent out 

 # Of Guest– 250 (hoping for only 200)

 RSVP Yes – 66

 RSVP No-6

3 weeks left…hopefully more will trickle in.

Post # 102
Member
659 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@Tswife4ever: i’m in the same situation. and i don’t want to give them a call because i don’t want them coming anymore. lol i’ve hit my max guest count.

Post # 103
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3068 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@Ms. Sparkles: The only thing is, the people who i did not receive them from, I had already message last Monday to let them know the deadline was approaching and that we needed them by Saturday. We are having assigned seating so I am scared that if they show up, we will not have a seat for them and they will have to leave.

Post # 104
Member
89 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Update:

Wedding Date: May 29,2011

Date mailed: February 26

RSVP date: May 1

# of invitations: 85 mailed

# of guests: 171

RSVP Yes: 77

RSVP No: 22

Still 72 people that have yet to reply! ugggh! I have people that have already booked hotel rooms, but haven’t send in their RSVP..dont know what they are waiting for!

Post # 105
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3295 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@Tswife4ever: hmmm well thats their fault lol.

im not having assigned seating so unfortunately they can just take a seat from someone who actually did rsvp…. ive decided im just going to call them to get a yes or no. because a really do need to know. my venue only seats 220 so im hoping for under 190 as i dont want to be cramped.

Post # 106
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249 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i’m finally updating! today was the first day since we mailed out the invites that we haven’t received at least one RSVP in the mail…

Date mailed: Tuesday, March 22

RSVP date: May 1

# of invitations: 102

# of guests: 200(that’s if everyone i put guest brings one)

RSVP Yes: 102

RSVP No: 22

majority of the no’s are the ‘and guest’ or out of towners. only suprised by 1 no

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