(Closed) may 29th wedding, rsvps lagging UGH

posted 7 years ago in May 2011
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i feel you, I hav mine for May1st and I have had like 15 cards back out of 65 but still, I have people saying, I cant wait.. or my fmil says well you know we are coming.. Yeah great but if I sent out a formal invite with a response card, then send it back. Its just proper. Plus I spend $1 in postage per invite lol. Every penny matters here people!

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I am going through a lot of the same thing!  I sent my invites at the end of Feb with an RSVP date of May 1.  So far I have 73 accepts, 26 declines and 72 that have yet to respond!  I also have people on my list that have booked hotel rooms, but have yet to respond!  Driving me nuts too!  My mom actually jsut talked to one of the guests that hasnt responded yet, and she said she is pretty sure she is coming so my mom said ok great I’ll let her know, and the women replied “Oh, well I have until May 1 to officially decide”  .uuggh 

Post # 5
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3068 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Same here!!! Deadline was Sat the 16th and we still need like, 10 invites!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I know the feeling. We sent ours out in January and are due back april 28. I am still waiting on 25 more rsvp’s. Next week is going to be “fun” spending my free time calling all these people who think i don’t have enough to do already working full time, planning a wedding and renovating a house! Grrr!

Post # 7
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686 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Yep, my deadline was Wednesday….

I’m missing 0 of my family’s rsvps and 24 out of 30 of his family’s rsvps!!!! Yes, 24 out of 30 did not come back to us!!!

Grr..I told him to start making some phone calls!!

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Mine are due the 1st of May.. what if I dont want some people who havent rsvps yet? Do I not call them lol. have them show up and say sorry you didnt rsvp. ???

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My RSVP deadline is Friday and I’m getting really anxious!  We still have 38 guests (not the physical envelopes) who have not RSVPed!  I really don’t want to call 15 or so families!

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Will it be rude if I dont call those who havent rsvp’d. What if they show up to the wedding.. will it be rude to not have a dinner plate for them.. THEY HAD A MONTH AND HALF TO RSVP!!! I can save a little money here. I have 8 invites of people who havent rsvpd.

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Our deadline is Friday and we are still waiting on approx. 20 responses! 1 is the best man, 2 are groomsmen and 1 is an aunt. We know they are all coming but we need to know what they want to eat! I have to submit a final count and final entree count as well. I don’t know what it is with these late responses but it’s driving me crazy.

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My RSVP due date is tomorrow and I am still waiting on 39 responses!!  Is it wrong of me to start making my phone calls today?

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