(Closed) May be postponing our wedding :(

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
82 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I have not experienced something similar, except that at one point, postponing the wedding was a serious option.  So, I do know the stress and other emotions you are going through.  Hang in there. 

Post # 4
889 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015 - Diplomat Country Club

That sounds almost like my situation. I’m married (at the JOP) been trying to plan this church wedding for as long as i can remember. My husband wants to work for the army, get this, in Africa smh he’s from there and prefers for us to live there which i’m ok with I was born in the US but grew up in Haiti so i’m ok moving even though it’s far but now this whole process is sooooo lonnnggg!!!! i set the date for July 27th 2013 he got the test done and now waiting for the physical, over there things are sooooo sloooowwww so i don’t even know if he’ll start training sooner than later and if he’ll be able to come for the wedding so right now everything is on hold until he starts training πŸ™ so frustrating being on stand by smh

Post # 7
871 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Lizetta20:  Good luck! Hopefully your vendors will be understanding and if you can still use them just on a different date hopefully you can just re book w out losing any money.

Post # 8
3639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Good luck! As @Ballet513:  said, hopefull you’ll be able to re-book your vendors without a penalty.

Post # 11
103 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Looks like I’m in the same boat now.  FI just started his background process for CHP and even though he still has some ways to go, if he gets accepted, the first academy begins in September which would interefere with our wedding date.  I don’t mind postponing it but I’m worried about the deposits we’ve already made to our vendors.  

@Lizetta20:  Did you have any problems with switching the dates with your vendors after you’ve already paid the deposit?  

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