(Closed) May be time for me to say goodbye

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Hmmm that majorly bites.  I am definitely not an advocate of changing names etc, but in this case I probably would change my name or ask administrators if at all possible you can have a name change due to privacy issues (i don’t think that they can do it, but who knows, all they can say is no, you know?).  But I don’t like it when anyone leaves the hive, I feel as though you are my friend so you have to stay ๐Ÿ˜› LMBO!!

Post # 4
Member
606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Oh no she didn’t!  You are staying.  Change your profile name, be mindful of what you post so there are no direction connections to you and stay around the hive.  It’s a shame because she will soon realize that sometimes you need to vent about your wedding party and in no way is it to be mean… you just need a release.

Post # 5
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1454 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I agree. I wish you wouldn’t go, and I’m most concerned that this girl- not in your BP- showed the posts to them. I would question HER more than the bee! If you need to change your name, do it… but stay with us! No one else on the bee will judge you or tell your BP! Promise ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
Member
987 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Some people just love to stir up trouble.  It sucks for you but don’t let her get the best of you!  Change names if you have to but don’t leave.  I would hate for you to have to give up such a great resource because of someone else’s bad behavior.  And take solace in knowing karma will take care of it eventually!

Post # 7
Member
1813 posts
Buzzing bee

wow, I can’t believe all the friend/fellow bride drama I see on here…people need to grow up!  Though, this is why I purposely stay anonymous and haven’t posted any pics…I need to be able to vent!  Of course if  you knew me and read my posts in order, you’d know it’s me…but not likely to happen. ๐Ÿ˜‰

I hope you don’t leave WB over this. 

Post # 8
Member
2143 posts
Buzzing bee

some people just create new user names when they need to write a post about something annonymous. Good luck. That must have been a truly uncomfortable situation, but I’m glad you were able to work through it.

Post # 9
Member
2470 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Wow! How obnoxious. (I hope she is reading this right now cause girlfriend… that move wasn’t cool).

I say change your name – you’ve gotten a lot and given a lot of support through Bee.. don’t leave

Post # 10
Member
617 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Maybe you could just start a new account and reacquire anonymity. I wouldn’t give up WB, I would just start a new account that she didn’t know. Even, as PP mentioned – if you just set up an account for vents only.

Post # 11
Member
1756 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That’s a really hateful, back-stabbing thing to do. I sincerely hope you don’t leave WB because of it. Sometimes, venting is just venting, and if you don’t let it out, you’ll explode. Talk to the admins about changing your username. If they can do it when someone becomes a Blogging Bee, perhaps they can make it work for you, too.

Post # 12
Member
573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I was actually wondering about this yesterday, as I’ve begun to refer some people to this site. 

Question – Did you tell her your name on WB? 

I would probably do a name change, b/c we do love you here and you’ve commented on some of my questions and shed some light on things for me!!

Post # 13
Member
2779 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Get a name change or a new account and come back bigger, better and stronger than ever girl! It bites that a friend did that – especially as we all do that about our weddings from time to time. This is exactly why I haven’t referred anyone yet though – I love WeddingBee and I quite like my divide between WB and my real life and don’t quite want them to mesh yet.

Post # 14
Member
6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Oh wow, that’s actually why I don’t suggest WB to my friends.. b/c I come here to vent and be way more honest than I would in real life. I also think you should get a new profile and start over!

Post # 15
Member
286 posts
Helper bee

I think you should just change your name…

Post # 16
Member
2765 posts
Sugar bee

But even if you changed your name, your old posts would show up under that new username… and since she has the URLs of your posts from before, it’d be pretty easy for her to find your new username!

I like the idea to create a secondary username for when sharing more private posts… it’s really the only way to guarantee anonymity.

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