- 7 years ago
I recently found out that my lying, cheating, asshole soon-to-be-ex-husband is in fact bisexual.
I don’t have a problem with the fact that he’s bisexual, to clarify, I have a problem with the fact that he finds it acceptable to have sex with people who he’s not married to and lie to his wife about it.
We have a lot of mutual friends, none of whom he talks to anymore, because I’ve been very candid with people about the fact that he was/is cheating on me, and he’s understandably embarrassed.
I process information by talking stuff though, and some of my closest friends have heard all the dirty details of the divorce.
Here’s my question: I don’t want to be a total bitch and “out” him as bisexual, since he has told virtually no one in his life, but I also want to process this new information by talking about it with close friends. Is it totally wrong of me to talk to people about this new development? Or is it off limits since it doesn’t change anything, since we’re getting divorced anyway after he slept with the slut?