(Closed) maybe i should just have one bridesmaid…. long rant

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: am i being unreasonable??
    yes : (2 votes)
    33 %
    no : (2 votes)
    33 %
    mmmm maybe need more info : (2 votes)
    33 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    9918 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I think if you know a friend is flaky you can’t expect them to change that just because you’re getting married.  My best friend is like that.  She can still be my best friend though I don’t necessarily talk to her every single day because when we do talk we are just on the same wavelength.  It’s like she’s my sister…and lol she will be my sister-in-law, go figure.

     

    I think you need to just deal with it at this point.  Sorry that’s not probably good advice.  

    Post # 5
    Member
    3357 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @trinity_542:  “I am the type of friend that likes to be involved in my friends life and them in mine.”

    Here’s your problem. Just because you are that kind of person, doesn’t mean everybody else is. You are projecting how you would handle something onto someone else and are obviously going to be disappointed by that.

    Post # 7
    Member
    3583 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I don’t think you’re unreasonable, I think that you might have a good acquaintance on your hands, not a friend to the extent of what you feel you need/want.   ‘Firing’ her at this point would be a true relationship killer so you need to decide what is more important – having a stress free (ya right!) wedding process or having her stand there with you. 

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