(Closed) maybe I shouldnt be here…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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3421 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

@Choosgirl:  *Shakes You* It is gonna be ok! You are going to be ok! You are actively waiting, which is a lot better then some of us. Enjoy the stories….It’s either this or facebook…

Post # 5
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Newbee

Hey,

 

(Hugs) hang in there! You aren’t the only one who has no idea if or when a proposal might happen by the way Wink

Post # 6
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523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@Choosgirl:  Girl.. I lurked this board for months before joining… I have been with my SO for 4 years and basically been waiting since our 4 year anniversary.. It will happen and you should definitely be here.. we are all in the same boat and here for you.. I enjoy it here all the stories and support and even advice given.. Stick Around

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

i know how you feel– my suggestion is limit how much time you spend on the bee each day or even take some days off. for me it’s fun to see the people who i have been following get engaged –it reminds me that when you least expect it, it could happen for me too. also, i read posts from engaged people who are freaking out with wedding planning because THAT is one thing i don’t have to deal with directly yet!!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

@fingerscrossed:  good point!…at least I don’t have the worries of wedding planning yet!..then I can bitch on a different board here LOL 😉

Post # 9
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410 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Choosgirl:  This board is for all waiters, whether it be a day or years (of waiting, not dating lol. If someone was already waiting for a ring after one day of dating, I’d be a bit frightened.) How old are you, and how long have you and your SO been dating? I’m 34, and my 6 yr anniversary w/ my SO is the end of October.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@BrandyQ:  i know!! this site is a dream come true to get the crazy out and be able to space out my venting IRL to my friends!! and i’m so glad it will be here for the wedding-crazy as well (knock on wood)

Post # 12
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121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

If it’s making you crazy, I’d definitely recommend limiting how much time you spend here or stepping away altogether. I did so and it was a good choice. I was plenty crazy on my own and reading daily about it was just winding me up even more.

Post # 13
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1294 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I, in a way have no idea when I will be getting engaged because although I see little insignificant signs all the time, my bf has not really given me a solid timeline or sure signs of a proposal coming soon. I am here sometimes feeling crappy and sometimes feeling happy that I am not alone waiting… 

There are SO many different stages of waiting bees here.. it may be today that some of us get engaged and it might be years.. for some of us theres no way we will ever know until it happens because we have sneaky guys, and for some of us we know down to the minute of when it will happen. 

No matter what, you are ot alone in your wait and we are a supportive community to learn from and take comfort from when we want go through the emotional rollercoaster of waiting 🙂 

Post # 14
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2025 posts
Buzzing bee

@Choosgirl:  Aww – not threadjacking, just wanted to say that’s awesome that he’s been there for you and your son. He sounds like a keeper!

I know what you mean about this site not helping sometimes. You know what else doesn’t help me? BlueNile.com or pretty much anything on WeTV, haha!

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Choosgirl:  Ahhhh, I gotcha. Yeah, my browsing this site and the knot almost every day definitely doesn’t help my “waiting” either. You know what else doesn’t help? “Bridezillas.” I watch that show and see those crazy, selfish biotches & think to myself “if someone is willing to marry HER, why the hell hasn’t my SO proposed yet?!?”  Tongue Out

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