- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Sooo I was with my MOH(my sister) two weeks ago and my niece and I were playing music on my sisters phone while she was changing my nephew well (this part I feel guilty for) my step mom texted her…about me. Me being curious I look at the last texts from a couple days before..all about me. How im so selfish and I never come around and me venting to my sister puts her in an akward place blah blah blah. 1)How am I selfish? Ive loaned my dad money quite a bit when nobody but me was working. I never asked for it back except when he promised to pay me back.2) Whenever I get a good day off from my full time job and I dont have class or a ridiculous amount of chores I visit my grandma and almost always my entire family is there. 3) I vent to my sister because were supposed to be sisters, youre supposed to have that one person you can confide in. I vent about my dad and step mom when she tells me something about them(parents and I barely talk) and I get upset. Always tells me about the lunches they go too and how much my dad calls her. Im never invited to these lunches and my dad never tries to call me. Its really bothering me that she is saying all this stuff behind my back when Ive straight up asked her If my venting to her bothers her or puts her in a bad place Ill stop. And I try to come around as much as I can Im a student full time and I work full time Im also planning my wedding. My sister has ALOT of free time since shes a stay at home mom and can be around all the time while I cant. I feel as though i should confront her on all of this because its bugging the tar out of me. Am I being ridiculous or what?