(Closed) Maybe I’m just cranky….

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Are we engaged to the same man?

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

He doesn’t do anything because he doesn’t need to. He knows that you will do it all for him.

Except for the license, I would give him a list of what he needs to do and let it go.

Drag him down to get the license if need be.

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@vmblai1019: Yep. I am going through the exact same thing. Don’t get me wrong, Fiance is a wonderful guy but he has no interest at all with the planning. I just try not to take it personally. I understand guys are not really into the planning but I just recently just told him, point blank, I need his help. I can’t do it alone. We are going to have to work together in so many other situations in our lifetime…

Just try and explain to him that you need his help. I am sure he cares. I just think wedding planning isn’t something most guys are interested in. If they only knew the work that goes into it…not to mention the $.

Fiance came up to my work to get my car to get the oil changed and washed it last week….now why was it too much for him to go to the florist with me?? lol…he tries. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@vmblai1019: Breathe Daily~Rise Above.

Do you know of anyone yourself that can replace your brother?

Try not to let your Fiance stress you out any further, you have enough things on your plate to not have to deal with him.

GOOD LUCK

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@vmblai1019: Awesome!!

FI actually made all of the starfish chair hangers for our beach wedding! ha! I was so surprised and overjoyed at the same time! He has been helping out a lot more now that it’s crunch time.

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