Post # 1
I am almost ready to give up but I know he is the one i want to be with forever. So i get to see everyone else around us get married well i wait and pretend it doesnt bug me. I cry almost every night about it. I know it bugs him that he hasnt asked me yet. The money hasnt been there. Sometime i am scared he will leave me,
I thought he was going to pop the question well we went on our vacation to Canada to visit family and friends. Nope didnt happen. I pray it happens before it to late. The ring I loved isnt being made anymore either 🙁 maybe its a sign 🙁
Post # 3
Talk to him about it :(.
You know money is an issue for my honey and I also. We have been dating for 6 years! So finally after he started his new job I suggested we go finance my ring and make payments together. I don’t see anything wrong with that! Now I am just waiting for him to pop the question. I know the ring is ours and he has it but I have no idea when he will ask! I’ll still be suprised.
Post # 4
I am giving my SO money to help pay for my ring… or at least make him more comfortable taking so much out of savings for it. I figure, we share the bills every which way as it is anyway, why not share the cost of this? It’s something between us, so I may as well. He wasn’t tooo cool with the idea at first, but he figured out his way around it was so it wouldn’t completely deplete his savings account all at once.
Post # 5
I wish I had some comforting words but if your not happy you need to fix it.
Post # 6
@pinkpeca: My SO says money is the issue but spends money faster than he makes it! It’s really really starting to bug me. and when I tell him he tells me it’s ok. NO its not okay!!!
I would sit down and talk to him. Tell him how you feel and hopefully he will get it!
Post # 7
@pinkpeca: oh dear. i’m so sorry for you. you definitely should tell him that it’s not the value of the ring that matters, but his love and the fact that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. and he could always go for cheaper, but amazingly-looking diamond alternatives or gemstone rings. just don’t be afraid to show him how you feel about it.
btw, why are you scared he’s gonna leave you? and what is “too late” for a proposal?