- 6 months ago
Having a rough week and looking for some people to talk with. Long story short I’m 32 years old, single, and pretty down about my hopes of ever being married.
I’ve had 2 relationships – the first one was 10 years, we were engaged, he found someone else and left. Second one was 2 years, he was emotionally abusive, never did what he said he was going to, he broke up with me when I wouldn’t move into his house.
I am completley devastated nothing has worked out. The first one has taken years to get over and it still hurts today.
I have been on every dating site, paid ones, free ones, I am selective **AF** and I’m meeting no one. I’ve been on 3 dates in 2 months and nada. Either they seem completely nice and “pass” my questions I ask before I meet them, then I meet and they’re either players, just not my type, or (get this), ADMIT that they’re deleting/re-creating their Bumble profiles over and over to increase their score so more woman will see them. This is after carefully screening profiles, talking with them for several days, and they still end up being a complete waste of time in person.
I never meet any decent guys when I’m out in real life either – and I certainly am not interested in ones that approach at bars and clubs – they practically have their pants unzipped on the way over. I am just so completely defeated at this point.
I never thought at 32 I’d be single again and having to sort through all the garbage that’s out there. I really feel like I will never meet “the one”. Everyone is divorced, has kids, players, …. I want to be loved again, I want to love again, and someone who will actually committ.
Any advice would be appreciated, I’m just so upset.