- 2 months ago
jellybellynelly : I think some of her criteria are reasonable. For example, with respect to kids, she may be CFBC or be concerned the child’s other parent may limit their opportunities as a couple. I do also think the requirement of having a degree is entirely reasonable. A degree is a minimum requirement for many stable careers and speaks to a level of intellectual curiosity. Obviously, there are exceptions – say if they dropped out to pursue an ultimately highly successful business.
pinkglitter2017 : That being said, I do think you should consider each of the criteria and the reasons behind each, and whether the initial criteria could be relaxed in favor of a more nuanced assessment. Also, I’d recommend getting involved in a club or volunteering; in that way you meet people who have similar interests and the objective is not solely on finding a partner.