(Closed) maybe the strangest wedding guest ever! advice?

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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705 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I think it will be fine.  I went to an exes wedding and it was a blast.  We have a lot of mutual friends, we stopped dating ages ago and both have clearly moved on.  It’s not like the situation was primed for drama–just like you guys.  You are all friends and so it should be fine.  His family will be happy to catch up and will hopefully restrain themselves from saying stupid things like “How does it feel, watching your ex marry another woman?”

Post # 4
Member
780 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

It sounds like you are all mature and positive people…  As long as the three of you are secure in your choice, try not to concern yourself with others’ opinions.  Most of those people will take their cues from you, your Fiance and the invited friend. 

Post # 6
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7992 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

Yeah, I don’t think it’s a biggie either. You all sound like mature and responsible adults, dealing with quite a common scenario. Don’t worry!

Post # 7
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189 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I invited my fiance’s ex wife to come to mine.  She even went to my dress fitting with me.  I adore her.  I think so long as you’re comfortable with her there and he is and she is, then what other people think doesn’t matter. 

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