(Closed) Maybe TMI… just curious though!

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Have you ever tried anal?
    yes : (102 votes)
    53 %
    no : (86 votes)
    44 %
    maybe : (6 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 33
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    126 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Errr… we have attempted, but weren’t successful. It hurt and we didn’t even get very far. 

    Post # 34
    Member
    873 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Hell no! Never! Fi is not interested either, so we’re good!

    Post # 35
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    311 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012 - Prairie Production- Chicago (loft)

    @Mrs.LaFountain:  I agree. If you really take your time, and do all the steps to prepare yourself, it can be an enjoyable experience. BUT only if you’re with a partner that you trust.

    I was against it at first, but when we tried…he took care of me in a different way that made me feel special. When we have “normal” sex we both are working hard to please the other, and since its so regular it seems like just another part of our relationship. Dont get me wrong- I enjoy it…but you know- I know what to expect most days. With this type of sex, he massaged my whole body…lit all these candles to calm me down…..prepared the area with lube, and talked sweeetly…it was so exciting and romantic and I was ready for him. I feel more connected to him now than I ever have. Im usually the one who makes the decisions and handles the household- so when we do this…I become the fragile woman taken care of by her man…….but have told him this will never become a regular thing…only a special treat!

     

    Tip…TAKE YOUR TIME…its nothing like you hear about in videos online….I dont think it should be like that.

     

     

    Post # 36
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    134 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I think it’s funny that “maybe” is a poll option. 

    If you’ve done it, you definitely know (for good or for bad). 😉 

    Post # 37
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    1012 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’m actually shocked that many girls have done it! for some reason I thought it was a bit taboo.

    I have an exit only policy.

    Post # 38
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    945 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I’ll admit, I’ve tried it once with Fiance. Kinda felt like I had to go, and to be honest it wasn’t that amazing. I’d do it again if Fiance really wanted, but he doesn’t seem all that interested anymore. I think it was one of those I’ve tried it and I’m satisfied now things. 😛 haha

    Post # 39
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    758 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Yes.  Like others have said, progress.  Start small, with toys (like bullets or plugs) or fingers.  Lots, lots, lots of lube.  Take it slowww.  I enjoy it when we do, but it’s not very often.  More often than not we just do anal play (for both me and FI).

     

    Gah, this is one of those threads where if anyone IRL sees this I will die.

    Post # 40
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    676 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I have tried it and it is painful my Fiance is very into it so we are trying to work up to me being able to do it for more than like 30seconds lol. I did agree when we got engaged as a condition of our marriage I would have to let him try once a year even if only for a second, so maybe 50 years from now I will get used to it lol. I know people that do like it though but for me it hurts and that overwhelming feeling of having to poop is terrible.

    Post # 41
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    676 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @Mrs.KMM:  I am with you on that he is very aware there never has been nor ever will be cum that goes there…the idea of that coming out of there just grosses me out.

    Post # 42
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    224 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Ryansgirl:  UGH, same here. With an ex. It was terrible and thank goodness Fiance would never make me do it. We have joked about it but he knows that is off limits. Who really wants to feel like they are about to poop on themselves?? NOT ME!

    Post # 43
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    750 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I learned all about it in my Sexual Psychology course I took…and you MUST MUST MUST use either a condom or a dental dam. It is, well, not the cleanest of places and so many germs get passed around in places they never should be…you can get infections and it’s just not worth the risk without proper protection. Don’t stick a finger or tongue or anything else in there without protection either! Risky business lol.

    I’m going to keep this as short and non-judgemental sounding as possible…I do not find it appealing whatsoever. More power to you if you do. I will admit I am surprised at how many bees have tried it!

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