(Closed) Maybe we should just elope…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Don’t worry about other people.  We’re eloping and will have no one there.  That’s the way I wanted it because I didn’t want to have to plan all the BS nonsense. 

You can always have a very small wedding with family only.  You don’t need the big over-the-top affair. 🙂

Post # 4
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4952 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

You could have a very small intimate wedding with immediate family members to compromise…?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

If you want to elope, elope.  Your loved ones will forgive you.

Post # 6
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340 posts
Helper bee

I am in your EXACT same boat! My dad said that he would jsut give me the money if I didn’t waist it on a wedding, where my mom wants me to have a wedding. We are going to have 10 people max to make family happy and that is about it! I just don’t want to waist my life  or money planning one day> Another thing, half the people that are invited to weddigns don’t want to go anyway. I think you should elope!

Post # 7
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1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Do what works best for you and makes you happiest/less stressed 🙂

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

Destination wedding with your parents and his kids.  Plan to extend your stay a few more days or a week after they all fly home.

Otherwise, elope.  Weddings are very stressful and although some people may be disappointed to miss your nuptials you can always have a party to celebrate your marriage when you return.

Post # 9
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407 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I may be wrong but I’m guessing his mom and his kids will be ok. They’ve done it once, if not twice, before. They’re probably just excited to have you as a member of the family.

After reading this board, it seems that brides that aren’t strong willed have the roughest times planning they’re wedding. If you’re already stressing out over hurting people’s feelings, I would suggest eloping. Don’t do it to yourself.

 

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