Me and my ex broke up and he slept with someone else.

posted 1 year ago in Relationships
Post # 48
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

Age is NOT just a number in this situation. You were not in a position to be making the choices that you did. You were a child and, like a child, you followed immature impulses and, unfortunately, made a terrible choice. 

Rather than trying to force yourself to give up your “drug” which you already know you need to do but you clearly don’t plan to do, just start going to therapy. Maybe that will help you to see how absolutely unacceptable this situation has been from the start and then you can make some changes going forward. 

I hope you get through this and get rid of this trash. He’s holding you back and if you can move beyond this cycle with him, you will probably be an excellent support for the women you work with because you will understand where they are coming from and how they can get caught up in a situation that they know is a bad one.

Post # 49
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1850 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

anwtzzyka :  Age isn’t just a number when it’s against the law. 

Post # 50
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4230 posts
Honey bee

Wait wait wait…you guys were together for 5 years, but you’re 20 years old and have a 13 year age gap? Am I understanding correctly?

So you got together when you were 15 and he was 28, and he was physically abusive and manipulative? Please, please don’t even consider going back to him. 

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