(Closed) Me v.s. Playstation 3. Anyone else??

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Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

My FH is a gamer too… although I spit the dummy when he spends too much time on the computer. His whole life is basically lived for technology (he even works as a programmer) … but he always makes sure he spends time with me, and the times he’s in his ‘man cave’ (computer room) I get to watch my girly tv shows/ surf the wedding forums. 

Post # 5
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544 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Jacqui90:  My Fiance plays playstation a lot, but to be honest I dont mind, caus Im busy planning our wedding in 3 months and he also always asks me if it’s okay if he plays of if i think he plays too often… So I dont have a problem with his PS3-Romance 😉

Post # 7
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544 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Jacqui90:  Did you ever tell him how you feel about it? Like mine asks me everyday if it’s getting too much for me but I told him that since Im busy on my computer anyway, I really dont mind it. But we’re planning on making a baby after the wedding and I told him that the fun times will probably be over soon and he said he knows and understands.

So just explain that you feel left over or not good enough sometimes. Most guys dont realize what they are doing until you explain your feelings!

Post # 9
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8461 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Jacqui90:  Have you tried playing any of the games with him?  My Fiance is a hardcore gamer (also works IT), and we have lots of fun playing games together (it’s how we met).  It sucks that you feel like you’re competing for attention with the PS3, that would drive me crazy.

Post # 11
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452 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I started to play with him (I liked video games growing up anyways) and he doesn’t play games that I don’t play if we’re home together spending time together.  We’ve found a few games that I like and have gotten really good at so that’s what we play together and if I’m at work or out with friends and he has a hankering for some gaming he’ll play a different game while I’m gone.  I can’t remember if it was ever really an issue.  Maybe when we first met and weren’t living together and he was living with 2 other guys. 

Post # 12
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732 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

My Fiance plays games all the time too, but it is on his computer. When we were first dating it bothered me a lot. We would only see each other on the weekends since we were somewhat long distance and he would play a game on his computer for like 8 hours on saturday if we were just lounging around. If I ever asked him to stop or asked him to go do somthing, he would stop in an instant. Then it was right back to the computer the second he was done. Now that we live together it doesn’t bother me at all. I do my own thing around the house and on my own computer while he does his thing. Also it is the same situation that if I ask him to do something, he doesn’t even hesitate to close the computer and give me his full attention. 

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