(Closed) Mean Bridesmaid?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2190 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@maybride2011: her rude behavior sounds like that is just her personality. I’ve had friends who I didn’t think were that great but they considered me their best friend. Either let her do a lot of the work, and stop suggesting things or back down…just as a bridesmaid.

Or sit down and talk with her–let her give you examples of what she likes and how you can help. But she doesn’t sound like a great friend and maybe you guys should cut ties after the weddings.

Post # 4
5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

sit down and tell her you don’t feel any support from her and her criticism is taking its toll.  Her comments have indicated that she is displeased with your actions as Maid/Matron of Honor, and if that is the case, you need to know so, because the comments in passing are not constructive and you’d like to meet her expectations. 

Post # 5
963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

What does this person add to your life?  Why did she choose you for a Maid/Matron of Honor – are you her best friend? This is how she treats you? 

I would just stand by and wait for instructions.  Write her an email and ask her what she would like you to do as Maid/Matron of Honor.  Then you have a WRITTEN list from her, that she cannot dispute.  Then do those things as best you can and ask for as much help from her as you need. Preferably in writing.

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