- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
We are having a delima. Our wedding is Oct. 22nd and both of us have lost our biological grandparents and my fiance has lost his mother. He has a step mother but there really isnt much love lost in their relationship. We are planning on having memory candles at the ceremony to remember these wonderful people that have made such an impact on our lives. We are planning on having his father light his parents, his sister light her mothers parents and their mothers candle and his aunt is going to light my grandparents candles (my father will be getting ready to walk me down the isle so he cant light my grandparents). We have asked various family memebers what their thoughts are about lighting them and some say a song playing in the background would be appropriate and others are saying a song would be inappropriate there should be a moment of total silence while they are being lit. What do you suggest and what song suggestions do you have?