Post # 31
FH and I have matching silicone rings that we wear on our right hands. I bought them as part of an inside joke just before we got engaged, and didn’t actually expect him to wear it yet (figured he’d wear it as a gym stand-in after we were married). He wears it all the time and it melts my heart a little every time I see it.
Post # 32
In my situation, my Fiance doesn’t want to wear his ring at all before the wedding. He wants nothing to do with it. Sometimes I’ll ask him to wear his ring for special occasions, just because.. but he doesn’t really want to and recently he doesn’t want to at all. I get pretty hurt sometimes because I feel like he doesn’t appreciate the ring and is not excited about marriage. I don’t know.. now I’m worried he doesn’t want to wear it even after the wedding..
Post # 33
We tried a couple rings out to see what he would like. Once he found the one he liked he never took it off. At first it was “I want to wear it for job interviews because married men seem more stable” this was true so it was fine. Now he wants to remain constant. I’ve tried talking him into letting me get him a gold one since his current it tungsten but he says he loves the one he has. Oh well I guess it’s not the worst thing that he wants to look taken already.
Post # 34
I bought my Fiance a ring he liked while we were dating and he decided to wear it on his left hand (he had already given me a promise ring). I think it’s sweet. But, I wouldn’t want him to wear his wedding band before the wedding! I’d do as other bees have suggested and use a different band 🙂
Post # 35
I proposed to my fiance and the ring I got for him will be his wedding band as well. That doesn’t bother me but if it’s an issue for you perhaps getting him a less expensive band for the engagement as many others have suggested is a good compromise for you both.