Post # 17
@dynamic_duo: Thank you, exactly.
And people I never said I put my foot down and forbade him to go!
I was just saying this week has left me feeling very emotional and upset over something that might be stupid at times.
Thank you for those of you that read, and got what I was getting at in my inital post ( saying that is upset me)…. I didn’t ask whether I should allow him to go or not. Obviously that remains his decision.
Post # 18
@HotPinkFire: I can relate. My husband’s friends came from out of state and wanted to go out the night before the wedding (after our rehearsal). I also was worried about my husband getting drunk/being hungover the next day on our wedding day! I totally get it. He ended up going to the bar down the street with them and did one or two shots that they got for him and then they came back. Don’t worry, though. No matter what it is going to be OK. BREATHE! I had to keep telling myself that the week of the wedding. It will be OK. 🙂
Post # 19
@Jenn23: Thanks! I’m not usually like this at all… It’s just this wedding week and me having completely unrealistic expectations all of a sudden. Kinda makes me feel like I’m completely loosing my mind at times. I would have felt much better about the going out and drinking if they opted for a different time to do so.
Post # 20
i think people are also missing her point that its not a concern of whether on not her Fiance is going to go and get sh*tfaced, the point is that after 1 glass of wine he may be hung over. saying oh well that
s his choice doesnt work, its the day she
s been planning for how long?...the day shes been waiting for all this time…
i have noticed men have real issues with peer pressure. if one of his friends says ohhh come on ONE DRINK…he will probably have one, assuming that`s just fine…if he gets wasted/completely hungover off of 2 glasses of wine, there could be a concern.
hotpink- hoping that it goes well tonight (assuming rehearsal is tonight?) and that he gets himself a shirley temple instead of a glass of wine! soon all this will be over and you can de-stress and not get overly emotional! Good luck!!
Post # 21
@lia22: Thank you! You totally understand what I was getting at!
I just had a convo with my Fiance, now my husband, and told him exactly how I felt. His friends endd up just wanting to go someplace and get trashed anyway. He had packing left to do for our honeymoon and understood my concern and just decided to stay home that night.
Life is sooo much better after the wedding! I can finally relax and stop being an absolute nutcase! 🙂