(Closed) Might be changing venue and I need some advice! (Pictures!)

posted 7 years ago in Reception
  • poll: What would you do?
    Keep bookings in Norway? : (2 votes)
    20 %
    Book venue in Ireland? : (7 votes)
    70 %
    None of them, please specify? : (1 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 5
    Member
    1365 posts
    Bumble bee

    The Irish venue is gorgeous. I’d book it if it’s what you and your Fiance want BUT (and this is a bug but) you need to sit down and talk to his dad about it and explain WHY it feels right to you by saying what you love about getting married in the place you met, NOT by criticising the venue he helped you secure. Thank him for all he has done to help you so far and apologise for any time he feels has been wasted. It’s a big decision so don’t go ahead with it unless you have talked to your families and are happy with their reactions. I’m not sure it is worth all falling out over.

    Post # 6
    Member
    2053 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @MrsWeddingbliss: Both venues are gorgeous but I definitely see the appeal of the Ireland venue. *drool!* Sheesh, I’ll have to show that to my Fiance tomorrow morning. We’re marrying in less than 2 weeks, so maybe we can go there for our vow renewal or something. πŸ™‚ Anyhow, I agree with VickyAurea 100% as to how to go about switching venues. I might also add that cutting your guest list from 80 to 50 might work out just fine — one must account for about a 20% attrition of those invited anyhow, so 50 might be your number after all. I love your ideas regarding food and music, too. Blessings to you both and enjoy!

    Post # 8
    Member
    1571 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I don’t know if I’d ever be able to choose between the two! They’re incredible.

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