(Closed) Might be sleeping still so can’t make it…?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Look, I know it’s annoying and you would like her there but at least she warned you. We all hope that those involved in our wedding will be just as pumped about everything as we are. Unfortunately, that is not the case. So, when people don’t show up they really don’t realize how hurtful it can be. I would not stress about it and enjoy your party without her.

ETA: My first thoughts were that she had been out drinking and had just got home to remember your party was today. If that’s the case, do you really want someone hungover there?

Post # 4
5428 posts
Bee Keeper

What is she doing awake at 5 AM and texting you at such an early time? SHE chooses not to go to your shower. Now that is something to call her and talk with her about!

Post # 7
86 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Was she working last night?


Seems an odd message to send out of the blue, unless she expects you know the reason behind it?

Post # 9
5662 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Sorry but that would totally piss me off And i can’t think of any realistic excuses. You might SE sleeping!? Get your ass outta bed and show up!

Post # 10
3692 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

What time is your shower?

Post # 11
1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

what time is your bridalshower? 530 am??? why wouldnt she make it??  I cant imagine you have a super early bridal shower..

sounds like she is depressed and prob jealous, may want to rethink your bridal part??

My two out of town bridesmaids made it to my shower and they live over 4 hours away!  Does she live near you if so I would be so upset and very hurt

Post # 13
2281 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Um…what? I don’t know what to say about this. At least she warned you?

Post # 14
400 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Maybe if she’s unemployed she couldn’t afford a gift and doesn’t want to show up empty handed and used an excuse so she didn’t have to feel bad or something…? Just try not to sweat it and enjoy your shower!

Post # 16
5428 posts
Bee Keeper

She could put in some zzzz until 11:00 then come back home after the shower to finish off her zzzzz!
Anyways. I applaud you for not doing anything about it but I would still talk with her at some point before the wedding because it’s unacceptable what she is doing…
I sure hope she doesn’t do that for your wedding! 

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