(Closed) MiL and lil SiL moved in…no way I can BD now! Eek!

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
2095 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I can understand how you feel, but how will you feel when there is a LO nearby? Will you feel awkward then too? I say get used to being quiet now and call it practice for the future….lol

Post # 4
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Desperate times call for desperate measures ๐Ÿ˜‰


Eek I’m sorry! Maybe time will change your mind or you can get some quiet time if the ladies go out and about ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 6
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m sure they know you bd. I think it would be strange for you just to stop having sex, you just got married. How does Darling Husband feel about your choice?

Post # 8
9056 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@MrsDulce:  We’re ttc too so sometimes it needs to be done at inopportune times. We used to never do it when we visited our parents but now…if I’m fertile, game on. We’ve been known to move it to the floor if we’re really concerned about being heard. 

That said,I they’re in your territory so perhaps make it clear that they are to leave you some private time a couple evenings a week.  I would think a 17 y/o is out frequently by default but I’d think your mil would also want to make herself scarce frequently. 

Post # 9
1272 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

haha, my hubby always feels uncomfortable about this when we visit his parents, but I made him last time because I’d FINALLY got a +OPK that morning. I thought we were very quiet… but when we were finished he said that he didn’t think we were. Ah well, they know we have sex, I’m sure (not that I’d want to make them feel uncomfortable!!).

But they are down a hallway a bit, so i’m sure that next door is even harder!!

Post # 10
378 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2008

@MrsDulce:  Oh no, how awkward! Along the same lines, at the end of this week I should be ovulating and we will be on a weekend getaway at the lake with six of our closest friends. We’ll even be sharing a room with another couple! I told my husband that we need to get it on in the shower or the car or something but he is not having it, haha. 

I hope the situation with your Mother-In-Law and SIL is fixed soon so you don’t have to worry about this indefinitely! 

Post # 11
669 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

EEEEK!  That sucks!  However, bd issssssssss possible!  My husband and I have perfected the art of being quiet.  We used to have sex in our parents’ house alllll the time when we were younger.  It was kind of exciting to see how heated things could get all the while trying to keep as quiet as possible.  The walls in my parent’s house are paper thin, too; I swear you can hear people breathe as well, but we still did it, successfully!  And no, my parents did not turn a blind eye to the situation.  Practice makes perfect! Try doing it standing up, and put your hands on the wall or a piece of furniture to brace yourself.  That’s usually how we did it the most quietly.  A bed can make noises too easily.

Good luck!  (I hope  my post wasn’t too TMI!)

Post # 12
813 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

shower sex?? haha just a thought! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Turn on some music. I hope they take some time to go out for a movie or dinner with friends so you guys have some alone time.

Post # 14
5670 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I know it sucks, but I wouldn’t stop TTC I would just be quiet. And then you can always spice it up when you know you have the house to yourself.

Post # 15
599 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Dumb question, what is BD?

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