(Closed) MIL and SIL drama – wedding postponed

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 46
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Wannabee

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anonymousIV:  I know the feeling,  my SO’s brothers girlfriend found out he was going to propose (my SO) bought herself a ring and made his brother propose the day before to be first. So now we decided to wait to get engaged to not be petty but I want to claw her face off… never mind they are living together with kids already so it’s not going to change much.  We don’t live together yet and I was getting so excited… I don’t know how to cope with having to be happy in front of her. This is why you don’t share plans, you just tell them when to show up.

Post # 47
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Surrey, BC, Canada

That’s just nuts. His family sound insane. 4 months in between is MORE THAN enough time in between. FH’s best man is getting married 1 month before ours and he just got engaged, and my Maid/Matron of Honor is getting married in 3 weeks and just got engaged. Then we also have another wedding to go to of mutual friends one week after our wedding (we didn’t know each others dates before booking). Who cares! Yeah it’s a lot going on but weddings are fun. 

Your Future Sister-In-Law needs to get over herself.

Post # 49
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Sugar bee

could do a court house and dont tell any of them 

Post # 50
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Newbee

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anonymousIV:  I’m sorry to hear that you’re dealing with this, it sounds awful. With that said, I find it a little strange that your fiance is saying all these things more than the actual SIL. Is it possible that he just isn’t ready to get married quite yet and is dragging his feet? It’s the perfect scape goat if so. Who knows, maybe it’s coincidental, but just a thought. First, I would have a serious conversation with your FH. He needs to be your support system and the 2 of you need to be on the same page and a united front. He shouldn’t be casting your feelings aside for his sisters. After the 2 of you talk, I would then try to sit down and have a conversation with your Future Mother-In-Law, Future Sister-In-Law, and your fiance about your plan. Your FH and you should go in there with a game plan, with a date picked and let them know that while you value their opinion, you’re moving forward regardless. 

Post # 51
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

A wedding is a day and one day only. No one can take up a whole week, month or year for it! She needs to get over it! i would understand more if she were having a tiny wedding and you planned this huge expensive wedding a few months before hers but she’s having the huge wedding your having the small one. I don’t see how she can get annoyed about that! 

Post # 52
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

  

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xoxokristin:  I laughed so hard at that!!!! 😀 Im all for the sabotage. 😉 

OP: RUN!!!!! 

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