(Closed) HELP…MIL and SIL knit picking my upcoming shower…how do I handle?

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 4
5779 posts
Bee Keeper

Ignore them. You can’t change how they act so you can only change how YOU react to them.


Sounds like you need to get a thicker skin when dealing with these people, and I hope it happens sooner rather than later since they’ll be in your lives a long time. Better yet…have your husband address it with them and how they act and ask them to plan their OWN shower for his side. There’s no reason both have to be included anyway.


Post # 5
46980 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

These two will behave like this for the rest of your life. I also suggest you learn to ignore them. If you need a visual, picture a floor length veil over your entire body, through which none of their words can penetrate.

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